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I'm originally from Northern Ireland. Moved to Scotland to go to university, met the wonderful man who I married in 2011 and we now have a beautiful baby girl.
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Abita Bhaskar a Douglas Perry
30. 4. 2011 Lanarkshire | 24 fotiek

I've just found out that my parents are refusing to tell any of my family outside the UK that I'm engaged until after Christmas. Don't know how to react to this.

  • mrsclarke15_08_10does it matter?? 🙂 i'd panic if they weren't going to say anything at all!! if your upset you could tell them yourself?
    • littlemissshowoff
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      Well yes, it does matter. By doing that, they're basically still saying that they're not happy about my marriage, and to a certain extent they're ashamed of it, so they're going to hide it as long as possible.
      • happysarah28Is it for religious reasons? You must be really upset. I would be. Do you feel comfortable asking them why they feel like that? Maybe it is not what you think xxx
        • littlemissshowoff
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          @happysarah28  Yes, it's religious and cultural reasons. They still have very traditionally indian ideas and don't like the fact that I'm marrying a white guy. I suppose I should be happy that they're at least coming to the wedding and Mum at least is showing some interest, but it's still upsetting.
          • mrsclarke15_08_10you just have to remember that as long as you and your man are happy and love each other nothing else matters xx
            • littlemissshowoff
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              @mrsclarke15_08_10  Yeah I know you're right. It's just one of those things I never expected, so when my mum told me she wasn't telling anyone yet, it felt really harsh. xx
              • meeesheloh no, that's not good. as mrsclarke15_08_10 says nothing else matters - at least they are coming, and hopefully they'll come round, they may just need a bit of time...hope it all works out for you! xx
                • littlemissshowoff
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                  @meeeshel  Thanks. The family who do know about it generally seem happy enough for me. Hopefully the family abroad will be ok with it as well. xx
                  • cherylsoontobeaitkenAh hun I feel for you. At least your family are coming though, mine aren't. Give them time, they may come round. I hope it all works out well for you xx
                    • mrsclarke15_08_10they'll forget all about it once your married and have given them grandbabies!! 😃
                      • littlemissshowoff
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                        @cherylsoontobeaitken  Hope things work out for you. It's really tough when your parents won't accept your wedding.
                        @mrsclarke15_08_10  😃
                        • happysarah28@littlemissshowoff  poor u xxx just if u can be proud of what u got xx